Negations focus our attention on the exact thing we’re trying to avoid.
They close off opportunity.
They crush progress.
They often create miscommunication and resentment.
Focusing on can’t, won’t, don’t, shouldn’t, couldn’t, not, etc… Brings almost zero benefit to our lives.
When we catch ourselves focusing on what we CAN’T DO, we get to change our words and our focus to what we CAN DO.
Focus on the negative, and you’ll find it.
Focus on the positive, and you’ll find it.
In short, positive talk (internal and external) will solve a hell of a lot more problems, than negative talk.
So… Why so negative yo?!?!
Go forth and be awesome!
Aaron Jannetti 